Tag: adoption
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When Trauma Whispers Instead of Shouts
Trauma has a way of sneaking up on you. One minute you’re driving home from soccer practice, singing along to the radio, and the next you’re blindsided by a memory from a previous life—one that brings you to tears without warning. If you have any understanding of adoption through the…
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Embracing the “Firsts” We Do Get
I was scrolling through old photos of the boys the other day. We’re coming up on our three-year anniversary as a family—a day we celebrate as “Family Day.” (Adoption day is in August.) It’s one more reason to be thankful in November. Looking at those pictures, I couldn’t help but…
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Autism Testing
After Boy1’s psychoeducational testing, we were advised to pursue autism testing. The wait time for the Medical University of South Carolina was around six months, but given that Boy1 has already been waiting for eight years, I wasn’t willing to have him wait any longer. So, I reached out to…
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From Zero to Mom to Special Needs Mom
Boy1 has been a delightful enigma since the day we first met him—truly a puzzle in the best possible way. His joy and positivity are nothing short of remarkable, especially considering his challenging history and obstacles. Although he is mostly nonverbal, he manages to engage in meaningful conversations with everyone…
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Becoming a Mom
Many women envision becoming a mom from a young age, while others don’t, and that’s perfectly okay. Some may think they don’t want children, only to change their minds later. And some might not plan on having kids, but life has other ideas. Regardless of the path, most of us…
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